Chapter 5: The Happy Reunion
Synopsis
Now that all of your efforts have paid off and it is time for the two of you to get back together there are some things you need to do. It is important that you make sure that you do not revert back to your old ways and that you do not let the relationship take the same turns that it did the last time when it did not work out. Keep in mind, just as easy as you have won your ex’s heart back you could lose it again.
The following chapter will go over what to expect when you get back together with your ex as well as some tips that will help you keep the relationship together and ensure that your love for each other will last an eternity.
Together Again!
I am very happy for you and the fact that you have gotten back together with your ex and have stolen their heart back. Now you just need to make sure that you do not lose it again, especially because the chances of getting a third chance are very low. You need to make sure that you always keep in mind the way you felt when you lost partner and how bad it broke your heart. Do you want to go through that again? I didn’t think so. You need to make sure that you steer clear of the actions and choices that contributed to the separation of the two of you last time. This will take time for you to master and you shouldn’t expect your partner to have everything mastered straight away either.
There are certain things you can do to show your partner that you appreciate them and that you would do anything for them. There are also things you need to do that are vital for a successful and healthy relationship. A few examples are listed below.
- Proper Communication: It is important that you have proper communication skills within a relationship if you want it to be successful and last. You need to know how to express to one another your thoughts and concerns without either one being offensive or being offended. This is easier said than done in the beginning but over time it becomes more and more easy. Practice proper communication skills whenever you get the chance and you will surely have the skill mastered in no time.
- Learn Your Partner: You need to learn everything you can about your partner. This will show your partner that you are truly interested in them too and not just yourself. It will also make them feel appreciated and loved. The more you know about your partner the better. Learn their likes and dislikes. Learn what they are interested in and participate with them in these activates.
- Express What You Need: You need to learn how to express what you need from the relationship in a healthy manner. People in relationships can fall into a pattern of expecting their significant other to be able to know what they are thinking or read their mind. This may be shocking news to some people but you cannot read minds. If you have a problem or you would like something to be addressed to need to make it understood to your partner. The hardest part of this is finding a way to do it in a positive manner but if you try hard enough you will find a way.
- Do The Things You Did In The Early Time Of Your Relationship: It is important that you keep your relationship alive. Couples often times end up in a rut where they no longer go out and do the things they used to do. They may stop dressing up and lose the motivation to keep their selves up. It is important that you do the things you did in the early times of your relationship when your spark was alive. Spending time with each other is very important but it is not good to sit around the house all of the time and never get out.
- Have Passionate Sex: Sex is very important in a successful relationship. You need to make sure that you are satisfying the desires of your partner. Make sure you have discussions about each other’s likes and dislikes. Make sure that you are not a selfish lover. Try making things special by laying out some flowers or drawing a bath with candles lit around it. There are many things you can do to make sex passionate and a true testament to love rather than just meaningless sex. Make sure you let your partner know that you love them and appreciate them and take the time to make sure they are satisfied.
Those were just a few of the countless tips there are for making sure that your relationship has the best chance possible to succeed. It may take time and effort but that is what relationships are about, give and take. If one person is taking too much and not giving enough there will surely be problems and things will eventually fall apart, again!
Wrapping Up
Winning back the heart of your ex is possible; it just may not be easy or happen overnight. If you use the information and helpful hints provided to you in this book you will have a much better chance. Once you do get your ex back it is extremely important that you both put in the needed amount of effort to keep everything going smoothly. A big part of the equation relates back to the golden rule we were all taught as a child, treat others the way we would like to be treated.
One thing that will surely motivate you to stay on the right track and make things work is to keep in mind the pain you went through when you lost ex in the first place. Once you get them back never let go because you do not know if you will get them back the next time.
I hope this book has been helpful for you and has provided you with some valuable information. Just believe that everything will work out and the power of love will make sure that it does.
Thank you for your time and I wish you the best of luck!
- Chapter 1: Recover From a Broken Heart
- Chapter 2: Understand What Went Wrong
- Chapter 3: Getting in Touch Again
- Chapter 4: Improve Communications
- Chapter 5: The Happy Reunion
