Chapter 2: Understand What Went Wrong
Synopsis
If you plan on ever rekindling the love between you and your ex it is extremely important that you look over your relationship and discover what went wrong. This process is difficult for many people to do. It is important that you are honest with yourself during this process and that you consider the things you did wrong too. Trying to place all of the blame on your ex will get you nowhere.
The following chapter will go over the importance of understanding where things went wrong and will provide you with some examples of common problems that can rip a relationship apart. Continue reading if you are serious about winning back your ex because nothing will ever get better if the root of the problem is not fixed.
What Happened?
Now that you have come to terms with reality and have begun to heal your heart it is time for the next step in the process of trying to win back your ex’s heart. It is time to look over your relationship and to discover where exactly things went wrong and what happened. Surely if you are trying to win your ex back there was some type of serious connection or else it would not be worth your efforts. There has to be a reason for why things took a turn for the worst. It is very likely that your relationship can be repaired; it is just going to take time and a lot of effort.
It is not advised that you skip the step of discovering where things went wrong, even if your ex wants to get back together immediately. Not addressing your issues and trying to just sweep them under the rug is a recipe for disaster. If you do not address the issues with your relationship any chances of a future attempt at making things work would surely be a waste of time. There is a reason why you have split ways and unless that issue is fixed it will surely end with the same results as before.
The hardest part of this process is probably going to be admitting your faults in the relationship and accepting responsibility for the things you could have done differently. There was probably many times where your ex tried to explain their feelings to you about certain things and you did not pay them any attention. It is not too late to start working on these things. Relationships are supposed to be give and take and both parties are supposed to contribute so it is important to think about if you were bring all you could to the table. At the same time it is not a good idea to sit around and dwell on the past. After you have discovered where things went wrong do not continue to sit around and think about it all day, take it for what it is and fix it.
Once you have discovered the issues with your relationship it is important that you begin trying to fix your wrong doing in the relationship. Think about all the conversations you and your ex had or the fights that you may have had and think about the things they were asking you to change. You need to begin fixing these things if you want a chance of winning back your ex. It may be hard to change some of your behaviors or habits but it is important that you do so. You must keep in mind however that it is important that you always remain true to who you are. You should not complete reinvent yourself you anyone but rather think about the things that make sense to change. The chances are if you do not like something about yourself, others will not appreciate it either.
This step may be difficult for you but it is extremely important. Do not try to rush things and fix all of your problems overnight because this will not happen! Take things slow and let love run its course.
- Chapter 1: Recover From a Broken Heart
- Chapter 2: Understand What Went Wrong
- Chapter 3: Getting in Touch Again
- Chapter 4: Improve Communications
- Chapter 5: The Happy Reunion
