In order to save your marriage, it’s going to take time to understand and listen to each other and come to a resolution rather than a crisis. Talking together in s peaceful and safe environment is essential for progress. Making time for each other consistently is also important in saving your marriage. Gift registries are an easy way to get started in finding the great marriage gift, and even if the couple hasn’t registered at your favorite store, you can still find plenty of ideas. From glasses to photo frames, there are many luxurious and eye-catching items available. Think about getting an engraved set of champagne glasses with the couple’s name on it, or a hand-embroidered decorative pillow. A marriage license costs between $42 and $70, depending on the county and package you choose. Cousins may marry and Alabama does allow for common law marriage. Alabama does not permit same sex marriages. A license is valid for 30 days. Alabama Department of Public Health can be reached at 334-613-5300. If no such contract is signed, the other spouse may well be able to make a claim for a financial interest in a real estate holdings, investments, etc. At a later date, the spouses can opt to make changes to their original agreement. This would need to be in writing and once again, each person would do well to seek out independent legal advice before signing anything. If kids are having difficulties with social relationships, schoolwork, after-school activities, or anything seems out of balance, it’s important for both parents to understand the changes taking place. Working with guidance counselors may help if the kids are having difficulty relating to people. We should share our emotions and we build emotional intimacy. Spiritual intimacy does not require agreement of belief on every detail. We are seeking to tell each other what is going on with our inner self. The purpose is not agreement, but understanding. Our final marriage tip for long-term success is the physical intimacy.