Monograms are a huge trend in weddings, to the point where they feature strongly in some, and in others, provide the actual theme. And what’s not to like about monograms? They’re elegant, understated, versatile, and a dramatic visual reminder of your new life together.
Ideas for including monograms
You’ll find them popping up in more and more places throughout the reception, and sometimes even prior to it. Here are some ways that brides include monograms:
- embossed, stamped or printed bridal stationary
- custom postage stamps (see www.funstamps.com)
- stationary seals or stickers
- painted aisle runners
- printed bridal bouquet ribbons
- bridal underwear or garter
- bridal handkerchief
- accent to bridal train, veil or gown
- ring bearer’s pillow
- stamped or printed out-of-town bags
- bridesmaids’ totes
- guestbook
- engraved guestbook pen
- tablecloths
- chair covers
- place cards and menus
- cocktail napkins
- coasters
- centerpieces
- engraved cake server set
- cake embellishment
- wood, wire, metal, chocolate or acrylic monogram cake topper
- monogram wreaths of silk or real flowers
- fabric wall or door banners
- champagne flutes
- bottled water labels
- “tears of joy” packs
- monogrammed wedding favors: cookies, ornaments, shot glasses, votive candles, chocolates, petit fours, notepads, favor boxes
- dance floor “gobo” projections
How do I get a monogram?
You make it! Many brides find they can “roll their own” using a readily-available software program such as Microsoft Word or PowerPoint. If you’re a graphic designer or have access to high-end tools, you’d probably prefer Adobe Illustrator, but Word or PowerPoint are also fine. If you’ve played around but don’t like the results, call on an arty friend.
To design your monogram in Microsoft Word:
Choose Insert -> Textbox. Type and format the letter the way you like it. Do this three times. Now click on all textboxes and choose Format->Textbox. Choose Color: No Fill (so you can overlap letters) and Line: No Line. Select all letters, right click, and choose Group to lock in the arrangement. You can now copy your image into Microsoft Paint and save in several formats, such as JPEG.
To design your monogram in PowerPoint:
You’ll want to use “Word Art” to create your letters. Click on the blue tilted “A” on the bottom toolbar for each letter. Format them to your liking. When you’re done designing, select all the letters, right-click, and choose Grouping->Group. Now you can click on your image and right-click for Save as Image. PowerPoint lets you save directly in formats like JPEG, PNG and TIFF.
Some more design tips:
The bride’s initial goes first in a monogram. When the bride takes the groom’s last name, the order is: bride’s first initial, shared last initial (usually larger), groom’s first initial.
If the bride keeps her own last name, one option is four-initial monogram (bride’s first, bride’s last, groom’s last, groom’s first). Or just join the couple’s first names with an ampersand (Jenny & Mike).
Some etiquette tips:
It’s somewhat frowned upon to use your couples monogram before you’re actually married. So, your reception’s clearly a green light, but you might want to skip using it on your invites. The ceremony itself is sort of a Ms. Manners gray area. Some brides uphold the spirit (if not the letter) of the “law” by including the monogram in a not-so-public ceremonial spot, such as a garter, or inside the dress.
Of course, these being modern times, some brides just include the monogram wherever and whenever they want.
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DIY monogrammed aisle runner
It’s not hard to create your own monogrammed aisle runner, and it makes a big splash. If you have a sewing machine, you can buy and hem the fabric for next to nothing. Now you just need some fabric paint in black or your wedding colors, a pencil, an exacto knife and some cardstock. You also need to decide where you want to place the monogram. Some aisle runners feature a monogram at the bottom, where the procession begins; the top, where the couple stands; and in the middle.
Print out your monogram and blow it up to your desired size on a copying machine. (If your aisle fabric is on the sheer side, you can now trace your monogram directly onto the fabric with pencil. Fill in with fabric paint, and you’re done.) Otherwise, tape the enlarged monogram onto the cardstock and cut out the shape with an exacto knife. Trace inside your new template lightly with pencil. Fill in with fabric paint. Follow the same procedure to make your own monogrammed table runners or even chair covers.
The dance floor monogram
A dramatic and memorable way to include your monogram is to project it onto the dance floor during the reception. As fun as this is, though, it’s not cheap and sometimes not easy. To project a monogram, you need to buy a custom metal plate, called a “gobo.” Custom gobo manufacturers are easily found online. The gobo itself usually costs over $100, but once made, you then need specific lights equipped with a pattern holder to use the gobo. It’s possible that your venue, or your DJ, will be able to provide these lights or help you locate a place from which to rent them.
A final tip
Now that you have some ideas for incorporating monograms in your wedding, remember the essence of elegance is restraint. It’s easy to overdo monograms, so mix them up contrasting touches, such as soft and romantic floral arrangements, to warm up the monogram’s cool and classic feel.
About the author:
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10 Great Hair Care Tips
by: Darla Di Grandi-Aguilera
If you watch the tabloids, you know that even the stars have bad hair
days. It just seems that when the professional stylists are out of the
picture, it is inherently human to have a less than glamorous mane. But
you can do your part to stay ahead of the battle by following these great
tips for hair care.
1. Use a professional conditioner that is formulated for your specific
hair type. While you can skimp a little on the shampoo, a good,
professional conditioner is a must have. Look for products in salons that
are customized for your hair type. For instance: If you have color or a
perm, choose a conditioner that is for chemically processed hair. And stay
away from those all-in-one shampoo and conditioner combos.
2. Choose a cut tailored to your face and body shape. The number one
mistake that people make when choosing a new hairstyle is to pick a style
based on popularity rather than how it will enhance their features. Always
choose a new cut based on how it will enhance or detract from your facial
features and build. If you have broad shoulders, choose a full-bodied cut
over a close cropped head hugging doo.
3. Don’t forget your UV protectants. Just as your skin gets damaged by
wind and sun, so does your hair. To combat this, look for finishing
products such as mousses, gels and sprays that block UV rays.
4. Keep your appointments. Did you know that your hair will split
faster than it will grow? You need to get a trim every 6 to 8 weeks, even
if it’s just a micro trim. A good hairdresser makes them good because they
know what to leave on the head, not take off.
5. Leave chemicals to the professionals. There is a reason why
beauticians need to go to school to learn how to handle chemicals and hair
processes. You can do irreparable damage with these products even if the
package says that it’s way easy. And even if you don’t make your hair fall
out, you could end up looking like a clown and paying a stylist big bucks
to fix your mess. (Note: Most stylists charge double the rate for
corrective color than they do for normal color processes)
6. Get color for interest and body. Every cut needs a little bit of
color to make it truly breathtaking. No matter whether your taste is
subtle or dramatic, you can add interest and volume to your tresses with a
color process. Highlights, lowlights, all over color, gray coverage, you
name it, it’s all good for your look.
7. Do weekly conditioning treatments. Even if your hair is extremely
healthy, it is constantly on the attack from wind, sun, cold and heat.
During the summer months, your hair is battered even more when it absorbs
chlorine and other chemicals from your pool.
8. Get an ionic ceramic flat iron. Instead of frying your hair with a
conventional metal plated flat iron. Straighten your tresses, add shine
and infuse moisture with one of the a negative ionic flat irons. We
personally use T3 irons for all our work.
9. Choose your styling products wisely. Avoid products that leave
build-up on your hair. If you see white gunk, that means that your product
is not water-soluble and may be coating your hair shaft. Build-up causes
limpness, breakage and inability to curl not to mention the white flakes.
10. Did you know that if you use a towel after your shower to dry your
hair you are causing split ends and adding static electricity to your
hair. Don’t rub the towel back and forth over your hair, scrunch the towel
around your hair like your would scrunch crackers in your soup.
While all of these tips won’t make you look like you’ve hired a
personal hairdresser, they will help you look the very best that you can
each and every day. When it comes to hair care, remember that you wear
your hair everyday. Now isn’t it worth the time, effort and money that it
takes to keep it looking spectacular?
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